Updated: Sep 18
Are you living a change-welcoming life? Or, like most humans, are you terrified of stepping out of that uncomfortable "comfort zone" box you're cramped in?
Believing and trusting that change is good might be the most important cliche' to memorize to accelerate your personal evolution.
In my role of helping people transform (AKA change), I have yet to find anyone who isn’t afraid of change to some degree. My clients all think they want change, proclaim they do, but subconsciously they're attached to the 'security' of the known. Even if that known is toxic.
That stomach-turning fear of change is the hurdle lurking in the background. The more power it has, the more you will fight change and not even realize it.
But why be afraid of change when everything is changing? All. The. Time.
It looks like things stop and start in life, but it’s a cycle of change. For something to start something has to end or change. For something to change, something has to start or end. For something to end, something has to start or change.
In other words, life is all just change.
Even if you've done everything to feel prepared and ready for change, part of you will be in fight/flight mode anticipating it. Plus, there are probably some dueling needs going on: You are resisting it (change is scary) yet simultaneously craving it (fear of boredom).
When you look deeply at fear of change, it's often hiding a deservingness issue. Do I deserve to have something different? What if it’s, OMG, good?
When a surprise change happens, it brings up feeling out of control, like a victim. Whether it’s a job loss, a sudden death, a computer crash, an unplanned pregnancy or something much smaller, deep fears get triggered.
Yet, those surprises can inspire courage, heroism, trust, helpfulness, caring, resilience, etc. Looking back, those shocks can be seen as your most powerfully awakening life lessons, leading you somewhere you needed to go.
Here's a spiritual truth: On a higher consciousness level you chose every aspect of your life. Part of you knows the changes you need to and will experience. Yet usually, you're kept in the mystery to prevent you from attempting to stop those important life-changing events.
Knowing that you chose the changes life "throws" at you can help you trust and go with the flow of life. You must've known you could handle them, right?
Besides, the more you resist your lessons, the more this insistent universe does its ‘thing’ and forces them.
You may as well enjoy this ever-changing human ride you are on! It's an "e-ticket" for sure!
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