Does it bug you when someone doesn't like you? Does it upset you when they seem prickly, hostile or snappy around you? Out of the blue, they like you one minute and hate you the next. Perhaps they go around trying to convince others to join their not-liking-you team, gossiping and bad mouthing until they recruit new members.
The most frustrating part is having no clue as to what happened. When you ask them what's going on, did I do something to offend you, they shrug their shoulders and say nope, nada, nothing. Instead of talking, trying to resolve or at least giving you an understanding of why, they insist that everything is just fine. Really.
But you sense it, like trying to breathe through a thick haze. The relationship gets affected. They get distant. You feel awkward around them. It is never the same no matter how hard you try. Simply because they will not talk.
One of your most important human assignments is to be okay with other peoples’ opinions and judgments about you. That means, not trying to change yourself or compromise who you are to please them. Not attempting to defend or explain yourself. Accepting that they are entitled to their buttons.
And not even needing to know why they feel the way they do.
Of course, that is not an easy task since approval is imperative to your fear-based, primitive consciousness. That need goes to your very core and won’t resolve by trying to fake it, shrugging it off, saying whatever. Choosing to attain acceptance by losing your self-acceptance is not a solution. You will be living a lie. A futile one at that.
The need for approval resolves by making peace with all aspects of yourself, all the parts you are judging and trying to hide from. It is called radical self-acceptance and is yet another one of your life missions.
Your work is to discover the mirror the not-liking-you person is showing you. They are accurately reflecting what you do not like about yourself. Something that you have pushed into the recesses of your subconscious, denying that quality by acting in ways that hide it.
They are gifting you a free bottle of Windex to help clean up why you don’t like yourself. Unknowingly they are turning up the heat to fast forward your primary human assignment – to evolve to empowered authenticity. Thank them for their perfect gift of not liking you.
You cannot heal what you are not aware of. You cannot manifest your true purpose, what you are meant to bring to this world, without awareness.
Anchor yourself into awareness. You are awakening one more person who will shift the world.
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